The Return of the Gentleman

This is the title of a new book by Dr. Dain Heer. Yes, it is written for men and, having read it, how much of it also applies to women, gentlewomen or ladies? How different could the world be if we had more gentlemen and ladies? You can get the book in the usual places.With […]

The Freedom to Choose

Are you completely free to make a choice? If you would have asked me that question a few years ago, even a year ago, I would have said yes in a heartbeat. I was not in a situation where I would have had to deal with negative consequences because I made a certain choice – […]

Underneath the surface

The school shooting last week in Florida had me sit and look deeper. I get the call to limit access to guns, especially semi-automatic guns. Yet the question that kept coming up for me was: Will this solve the problem? Dealing with the availability of guns is dealing with the surface issue. It took me […]

Comfortable Distance

We keep a comfortable distance in many areas of our lives. It could be in a relationship, in business, with money, with self, to name just a few. What do I mean by distance? How would I keep a distance to myself or someone I love? As the name says, it is a distance at […]

Are you putting yourself in a JAIL?

What! How could I put myself in a jail? I used caps in JAIL because it is an acronym. It stands for Judgments, Agendas, Inventions, and Lies. Let’s look at each one of them individually and then see how they function as a jail for us. Judgments: We are entrained to judge ourselves. We are […]

Being Present in your life

Dr. Dain Heer has a free series of videos called Tour of Consciousness. They are such a contribution to people that I will post the one or the other here on my blog. You can subscribe to the series.

Ask and You Shall Receive

Have you had the experience of asking and nothing happened? I have and I have been wondering what it is that I am not getting. Here are some things I learned and using them had quite an effect. I have been asking for things I felt I needed. “Universe, I need …..” The Universe gave […]

Is a Problem a Problem?

Recently, some friends and I had a conversation about problems we have. The question was asked: What would be if none of us had a problem? We realized that a) we would not fit in if we didn’t have a problem since most people have problems; b) we would not know what to do if […]

Being Intimate with Yourself

This seems to be a strange title. How can I be intimate with myself? What if intimacy has nothing to do with sex, with copulation? What if into-me-see is only an aspect of intimacy? What if there are elements to intimacy that one can apply to others as well as oneself? The elements are Honor, […]

Being in Allowance

What does it mean to be in allowance? Are allowance and acceptance two different words for the same thing? Outwardly, they seem to be the same. Allowance and acceptance are worlds apart. Perceive the energy of each word. What do you notice? With acceptance, there is a sense of being powerless. How often do we […]