Category Archives for "Musings and observations"

Go to your room

Go To Your Room Do you remember being a kid? May be you experienced being sent to your room to think about what you had done wrong? These “Stay at Home” orders that are in one way or another all over the globe remind me of that. It’s as if the earth has sent us to our […]

How to Deal with Dramatic and Traumatic Events: Five Tools to Prevent Panic

Corona virus. Right now, this word can evoke anxiety in some, in others it can lead to panic. With so much information floating around, some of which is inaccurate, how are you supposed to deal with it all? There are people who belief anything and everything they read or hear and then there are those […]

Speaking – Listening – Hearing

We all have conversations. The quality of these depends greatly from which space you come from. Speaking: From which space do you come when you speak? Do you tell a story?Do you try to convince the other about the rightness of your point of view?Do you offer a different point of view from the space of no significance?Listening […]

Thoughts on the Recent Mass Shootings in the USA

I had an interesting experience today. This morning, I was sitting with the question: What contribution can I be to stop the mass shootings? Later I read a FB post and had a reaction which led to eventually calling myself a superior bitch. Now I could have asked if it belongs to me, I could […]

The Freedom to Choose

Are you completely free to make a choice? If you would have asked me that question a few years ago, even a year ago, I would have said yes in a heartbeat. I was not in a situation where I would have had to deal with negative consequences because I made a certain choice – […]

Underneath the surface

The school shooting last week in Florida had me sit and look deeper. I get the call to limit access to guns, especially semi-automatic guns. Yet the question that kept coming up for me was: Will this solve the problem? Dealing with the availability of guns is dealing with the surface issue. It took me […]

Ask and You Shall Receive

Have you had the experience of asking and nothing happened? I have and I have been wondering what it is that I am not getting. Here are some things I learned and using them had quite an effect. I have been asking for things I felt I needed. “Universe, I need …..” The Universe gave […]

Is a Problem a Problem?

Recently, some friends and I had a conversation about problems we have. The question was asked: What would be if none of us had a problem? We realized that a) we would not fit in if we didn’t have a problem since most people have problems; b) we would not know what to do if […]

Being in Allowance

What does it mean to be in allowance? Are allowance and acceptance two different words for the same thing? Outwardly, they seem to be the same. Allowance and acceptance are worlds apart. Perceive the energy of each word. What do you notice? With acceptance, there is a sense of being powerless. How often do we […]

Ask a Question

There are all kinds of different questions. ‘Why did I do that?’ This is one where you have already come to a judgment of yourself and attached a question mark to it. ‘Why does this not work?’ This one has a conclusion of how something is supposed to work with an attached question mark. Neither […]